I have always expected my players to behave in an appropriate manner when playing soccer, and I also explain to parents what is expected of them.
Here are a few guidelines that adults and spectators in general should follow when watching children play a game of FUN
- Cheer, don't coach. Avoid yelling specific instructions and issuing commands. This can be extremely confusing for a child and possibly contrary to the coach's instructions.
- Avoid running up and down the sidelines shouting. It is better to stay with the other parents and supporters in an appropriate area.
- Always stress the importance of being a Team player.
- Respect the facilities at both your home ground and the oppositions ground
- Send your children ready to play. They should be properly fed and clothed, and should be punctual.
- Refrain from speaking to officials, unless it is to say thank you after the game. If you have questions or concerns with the referees or referee assistants, relay the information to the team manager, who will take it to the coach.
- Avoid confrontation with any of the opposition supporters. It is better to walk away and leave your reputation, the teams reputation and the clubs reputation in tact rather that getting involved in a "nobody wins" confrontation.
- Report to the coach all injuries, special medical conditions (such as asthma) or extenuating circumstances (such as lack of sleep or family crisis) that may affect the player.
- On the way home, try and focus on the positive aspects of your childs performance